Depression is like…

A snake. Hiding in the grass, ready to strike when I’m not alert. Or even if I’m watching for it, it bites me. And I’m surprised. Why am I surprised?

A dark cloud. Bringing shadows to my everyday. Everything looks gray. Sounds are muffled. My focus is inward and downcast, and I can’t see the sun.

An old frenemy. Familiar in its symptoms, luring me into a false sense of security. I’ve been here before. It’s so subtle that I don’t even feel it creep into my life. It somehow feels comfortable.

A heavy blanket. Pulling me downward. I feel like I’m hunched over, under the weight, the heaviness, of loneliness and hopelessness. I want to crawl under the blanket and not come out.

An anchor. Gripping the depths of the deep and pulling me under. I can’t get enough air in my lungs. I might drown.

A liar. Telling me I’m all alone. I’m worthless. I will always feel this way. These are not truths, but they feel real.

A deep well.  I try to climb up but the walls are slippery and I can’t get a good grip. Medicine and therapy and time will help me reach a ledge, but the climb out is slow.

Every transition in my life brings the possibility of another depressive episode. I was alert, I thought, but it still caught me by surprise.  I’m mad at myself about that. I thought I was on guard.

When will I learn that depression lurks in my life, waiting to sneak in and take over? How many times must I go through this before I can beat it?

That’s the thing. I don’t think I’ll ever beat it. I’ll always have it, waiting on the fringes of my life to jump in and make a mess of me. So I need to learn to roll with it, get help when I need it, and live fully when I’m in remission.

And I need to remember to pray. God knows what I’m going through. He’s with me in the depths. He loves me even in my mess. He could choose to heal me today, or He can use this in my life to help others.

Father God, help me to be content with Your plan for depression in my life. Help me to be a light to others. To speak out. To fight with Your strength. To seek help. To bring You my pain and sadness, and let You heal me as You choose.

 

7 thoughts on “Depression is like…

  1. Anne Snow August 21, 2017 / 12:17 pm

    You are such a good writer — very powerful words to describe a very powerful snake. I believe in you!

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  2. dawnlizjones August 20, 2017 / 5:43 pm

    “A liar. Telling me I’m all alone. I’m worthless. I will always feel this way. These are not truths, but they feel real.” This is one thing I am convinced of. Doesn’t mean the feelings aren’t real, or that even some of the accusations aren’t real, but the interpretations and end point assumptions are not. I’m thinking you may have a better (practical) handle on this than you think, child of the King.

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    • peggyricewi August 20, 2017 / 5:56 pm

      This is where relying on the truth of God’s Word helps me in my battle against depression. I have to remind myself what God says about me, not what I feel.

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  3. Sarah Buchanan August 20, 2017 / 5:14 pm

    I’m sorry you’re going through this again. 😦
    I love you, my friend, and am here with a hand stretched out to you.

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    • peggyricewi August 20, 2017 / 5:41 pm

      Thanks, Sarah. Sorry I didn’t share this when we were together, but I don’t think I really knew.

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